Is the girl of my dreams using me for my car?

For about a year now, I've had feelings for one of my female friends at college. I'm a mostly average-looking Catholic white guy (with maybe an larger sized nose). She's what most people would call an average-looking Chinese girl, but she has a reputation for being loud, violent, and tomboyish. I guess this puts most people off to her, but I find it oddly endearing. The only problem is she's had a steady boyfriend for well over a year now. So, I've been trying to be good friends with her until she becomes available. I let her play my video game system, we often cook together on the weekends, and I'll give her a ride in my car anywhere she wants. But, every time her boyfriend shows up, things just get really awkward, and all I can do is look sad. It's obvious they're having regularly . I think she has realized that I have feelings, but she seems fine with the status quo. Do you think I have a chance? Is she using me for my car and my money? Is this too pathetic? Help me.